I’m so sorry to hear what you’ve been having to deal with in this last year @ENKELI ❤️🩹🌺 it’s coming from ‘all sides’ 😔
I was bullied out of a good job a few years back - it was the only job I could do with my declining health at the time - and it was the boss’s husband..he wanted my job because quite frankly he wasn’t a good guy and he was moved out of his role directly as a result of his behaviour, and because he wanted to earn an income, he came to his wife’s work and literally pushed his way in, cancelling shifts of mine, talking behind backs, and undermining at every opportunity. I couldn’t take it as well as dealing with patients who were really unwell at times while this person with zero qualifications was standing right behind me undermining pretty much every word I said.
One day I just walked out - it was too much. The culture of the entire place changed - everyone sided with the bully because he was the boss’s husband, and they knew if they didn’t start undermining someone else, they would be the target. Of course I refused to lower myself to that level, so I became the target.
Some people just seem to go through life thinking hurting others doesn’t have any consequences or doesn’t cause longer term harm.. it does 💜
I do understand how awful it can be, and so there’s one thing that stands out here is that we have each other to connect with, and know there’s support 🙂🌺
