@Captain24 wrote:
I know it’s nothing serious but it just feels like it is.
No no, hun you are being bullied. That is ENTIRELY serious. And also, they don't get to decide if it's bullying or not - if it is hurting your feelings, which it is, then it is BULLYING - and it is ILLEGAL. You have grounds to go to Fair Work in my opinion. No one deserves to be insulted, belittled, singled out, and defamed (accusing you of being in a revue when you weren't is defamation aka damage to your reputation - also bullying, also illegal) in the workplace, or anywhere.
When you feel up to it, maybe give these guys a looksie and see if there's some guidance around what steps you could potentially take. You do NOT deserve this treatment.
@Captain24 wrote:
On the very rare time that I am a little short with someone it’s usually because they deserved it. Something they have done or didn’t do. So that makes me question me. Do I deserve it
I think you're judging their actions based on your own moral compass. And like me, your moral compass actually works well!! But these people don't operate by the same logic of 'I will be short with them because they deserve it', they're operating on instincts and insecurities - putting others down to make themselves feel better basically. They aren't picking on you because they think you deserve it, they're likely picking on you because you won't join them in bullying others. In fact, I think this is just evidence of the fact that YOU ARE A GOOD PERSON - much higher moral standing than those poopyheads!
