Hey @Captain24 ,
Totally your choice to consider what makes you feel safest. Some members choose to spend some time away and then return, some don't return, some just stay, some have boundaries around how long they use the forums, some people have posting plans in place which means they can only post on certain days/times, some can only post a certain number of posts, some are only permitted to post when certain moderators are on...
As much as we have a set of 'rules' when moderating forums, we have individualised plans for different members. And yes, where possible, the plan is developed with the member, but there are times where SANE staff have to enforce the plan. But this discussion is set out clearly via email as a Safe Posting Plan discussion.
So yes, moderating is not just moderating. There's a lot that goes on in the background.
Let us know what you think will work for you. We can either develop a plan together, or you can set boundaries yourself, or we can also enforce a plan (if this is what you want). We just to make sure you feel supported. Or we can leave it as it is. Totally up to you.
As for my syd BIL. He's just finished. It took him nearly 4 hours... my parents just let him do whatever. They know what he's like. My parents aren't argumentative at all.
Did you get up to much today?
