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Re: I can’t cope

Yeah.. we made many cakes and were close until she left town. @tyme 

 

Im really hoping that they remember what you have done for them. But I guess I really don’t have much to do with my aunties and uncles. I’d be there in a heartbeat if they needed me. 

I what about your other house or do you want to move completely away?

 

That's where the parenting rules are being challenging. You both usually do things separately but now being both together makes it seem harder. 

I don’t want to compromise myself now for the future. Especially when I don’t really see a future. Also of if I get diagnosed with dementia then I’ll be ending my life then. So I have some plans in place 

 

Re: I can’t cope

Yes, I like the "I'll cross the bridge when I get there" approach. I also don't want to compromise the amazing freedom I currently have @Captain24 I can eat when I want, sleep when I want, clean when I want, exercise when I want... 

 

Yep - I like your approach 🙂

Re: I can’t cope

Also, that's what I'm thinking. Once these kids grow up, they will move outta town and live their own lives. Then I am free to move.

 

My other house? I don't know. The guy is still living there. I'm not going to kick him out. And it'll be a few years down the track anyway. I really don't know.

 

As I've mentioned in the past, I really like the idea of Perth. I've been there a few times and I really like it. 

 

@Captain24 

Re: I can’t cope

Thanks for the chat tonight. I gtg, but will chat Sunday evening if you are free @Captain24 ?