Thanks @Former-Member

I think I will see my GP to have a blood test to check my hormones. That might be a bit easier to talk about to my husband.  I have actually seen a sex therapist but I can't even talk to him about anything intimate at all.  It is such a personal issue, I feel embarassed, ashamed and feel anxious talking about anything relating to sex.  For the first 5 years of our marriage we had sex all the time to have children.  I couldn't fall pregnant so to me, having sex to fall pregnant, was like a 'job'.  I felt like I was just being intimate and having sex just to get pregnant.  Then the child abuse memories came out a few years ago and it all started again.